Support if-let guards in matches macros by using :guard matcher

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Tracking issue #153104.

This PR replaces the original if $guard:expr with new matcher $guard:guard in macros matches! and assert_matches! to support the use of if-let guards syntax in these macros. This syntax is already stable in #141295 for match arms.

Please note that this PR directly applies :guard to macros that are already stable, so the support for if-let guards in these macros is instantly stable.

When using these macros that accept :guard, users will not be required to use nightly and enable #![feature(macro_guard_matcher)]. However, when defining macros with :guard, nightly and #![feature(macro_guard_matcher)] are still required. Therefore, I think a Crater run is needed.

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Please note that this PR directly applies :guard to macros that are already stable, so the support for if-let guards in these macros is instantly stable.

When using these macros that accept :guard, users will not be required to use nightly and enable #![feature(macro_guard_matcher)]. However, when defining macros with :guard, nightly and #![feature(macro_guard_matcher)] are still required. Therefore, I think a Crater run is needed.

Alternatively, to be more safe, we only provide the :guard version of macros when users activate macro_guard_matcher, otherwise falling back to the original if $e:expr version. But I couldn't find a way to write something like #[cfg(unstable_feature = "macro_guard_matcher")] in stdlib.