deps: migrate away from aspect-bazel-lib

[malt3]

The tar toolchain now lives in tar.bzl.
See: bazel-contrib/tar.bzl#37.

This is a prerequisite to work on Bazel 9 since this version of aspect_bazel_lib still depends on local_config_platform, which is no longer available:

ERROR: /home/malte/github.com/cgrindel/bazel-starlib/release/BUILD.bazel:52:16: While resolving toolchains for target //release:archive (bbcbb1c): invalid registered toolchain '@bsd_tar_toolchains//:all': while parsing '@bsd_tar_toolchains//:all': error loading package '@@aspect_bazel_lib++toolchains+bsd_tar_toolchains//': Unable to find package for @@[unknown repo 'local_config_platform' requested from @@aspect_bazel_lib++toolchains+bsd_tar_toolchains]//:constraints.bzl: The repository '@@[unknown repo 'local_config_platform' requested from @@aspect_bazel_lib++toolchains+bsd_tar_toolchains]' could not be resolved: No repository visible as '@local_config_platform' from repository '@@aspect_bazel_lib++toolchains+bsd_tar_toolchains'.

[cgrindel]

Sorry for the delay looking at this. We just merged #446 that uses Windows utils in aspect_bazel_lib. Is there something in aspect_bazel_lib that you do not want to reference?

[cgrindel]

@malt3 Let me know if you want to revisit this. For now, I am going to close this PR.